Still at school
It's 11 at night, campus is pretty much deserted, my room is more naked than a stripper, and I have all of tomorrow left until I can go home. Wow, I'm going to be so bored . . . I am so bored. So my roommate left this afternoon and took basically the entire room with him. It's rather amazing. HIs bedding was red, he had a rug that was green and both of us had posters up all over the walls. We put a ton of stuff in storage, including our futon, and my bean bag chairs, so all of the stuff that made the room so cool and relaxing is gone. It's so empty!! This coupled with the fact that like the entire campus is gone is a little depressing.
The other day I was talking to my track coach online (see my last post about the sunburing on a beach), and I told my roomie about it. He said that she seemed sexually frustrated (ie, not getting enough action), and that I had a chance with her (a bit of background - I showed him pictures of her from the Pimps and Hoes party, and he was like "Wow, she's hot!!"). I kind of laughed at that. I wish I had a chance with her. However, a) she's my coach, b) she's lusting after someone else, and c) she's my coach. The coach thing is both a turn on and a real deal breaker. I mean, anyone who has played a sport and had a hot coach knows what I'm talking about. However, she might be getting a paid position next year. Also, she'll still be coaching me at least for the beginning of next year. Me hooking up with her, while fun, could easily ruin the track season. Why does sex have to have so much extra emotional baggage attached? It's not fair.
Speaking of sex and relationships - my roommate is an idiot. He is currently dating this super sweet girl who is extremely innocent and a wonderful person overall. However, when she gets drunk, she starts to doubt herself, and her relationship with him. This is not helped by the fact that he flirts with other girls when he gets a little buzzed. Last night, there was a massage party in my room after I drove two of my friends to get pizza after they got the drunk munchies. We walk back in and my roomie is over one girl, who has her shirt bunched around her boobs, and his girlfriend is over another girl, who is still wearing all of her clothes the way they are supposed to be worn. Now, personally I think the couple should be massaging each other, and the other two can figure out what they want to do with one another. But anyways, the massage ends, and the girl with the clothing issues starts talking about a make out party. So she wants a threeway kiss with the girl who was recieving the other massage, and one of the guys I drove to get pizza. So of course my roomie videotapes this on his camera. As he's doing this, he is totally ignoring his girlfriend and concentrating on the chick who initiated the kiss (who is a little bit flirty anyways). When this girl says "Are you filming?" to my roomie, his girlfriend replies "Of course he is" in this hurt/resigned tone of voice, and goes over to the computer that's playing the music, and starts picking out really sad music. Later that night, she ends up crying in one of our friends laps, and my roomie is still ignoring her for the most part. I don't get it. It really seems like he would rather be friends with her than date her. However, I think he kind of wants to date her without the responsibilities. I can see why someone would want to do that, but this is the wrong girl to do it with. She's very naieve, she has a ton of people who will kill him is he hurts her in anyway, and he's not getting sex out of the relationship (she's a virgin and doesn't want to rush things, which I think is good).
Another thing that strikes me about my roommate's relationships, at least those he's had at school, is that his girlfriend ends up spending a lot of time with me. This makes me a little uncomfortable. I mean usually I don't know them that well before hand, if at all, but when they start dating him, they also seem to take a new interest in me. I really don't know what to make of it. I easily could be oversensitive to stepping on my roommates turf, or they actually could be more interested in me than before. Whatever.
Anyways, I think I was going to write more, but I got side tracked. I'll have plenty of time tomorrow to write if I think of it.
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The other day I was talking to my track coach online (see my last post about the sunburing on a beach), and I told my roomie about it. He said that she seemed sexually frustrated (ie, not getting enough action), and that I had a chance with her (a bit of background - I showed him pictures of her from the Pimps and Hoes party, and he was like "Wow, she's hot!!"). I kind of laughed at that. I wish I had a chance with her. However, a) she's my coach, b) she's lusting after someone else, and c) she's my coach. The coach thing is both a turn on and a real deal breaker. I mean, anyone who has played a sport and had a hot coach knows what I'm talking about. However, she might be getting a paid position next year. Also, she'll still be coaching me at least for the beginning of next year. Me hooking up with her, while fun, could easily ruin the track season. Why does sex have to have so much extra emotional baggage attached? It's not fair.
Speaking of sex and relationships - my roommate is an idiot. He is currently dating this super sweet girl who is extremely innocent and a wonderful person overall. However, when she gets drunk, she starts to doubt herself, and her relationship with him. This is not helped by the fact that he flirts with other girls when he gets a little buzzed. Last night, there was a massage party in my room after I drove two of my friends to get pizza after they got the drunk munchies. We walk back in and my roomie is over one girl, who has her shirt bunched around her boobs, and his girlfriend is over another girl, who is still wearing all of her clothes the way they are supposed to be worn. Now, personally I think the couple should be massaging each other, and the other two can figure out what they want to do with one another. But anyways, the massage ends, and the girl with the clothing issues starts talking about a make out party. So she wants a threeway kiss with the girl who was recieving the other massage, and one of the guys I drove to get pizza. So of course my roomie videotapes this on his camera. As he's doing this, he is totally ignoring his girlfriend and concentrating on the chick who initiated the kiss (who is a little bit flirty anyways). When this girl says "Are you filming?" to my roomie, his girlfriend replies "Of course he is" in this hurt/resigned tone of voice, and goes over to the computer that's playing the music, and starts picking out really sad music. Later that night, she ends up crying in one of our friends laps, and my roomie is still ignoring her for the most part. I don't get it. It really seems like he would rather be friends with her than date her. However, I think he kind of wants to date her without the responsibilities. I can see why someone would want to do that, but this is the wrong girl to do it with. She's very naieve, she has a ton of people who will kill him is he hurts her in anyway, and he's not getting sex out of the relationship (she's a virgin and doesn't want to rush things, which I think is good).
Another thing that strikes me about my roommate's relationships, at least those he's had at school, is that his girlfriend ends up spending a lot of time with me. This makes me a little uncomfortable. I mean usually I don't know them that well before hand, if at all, but when they start dating him, they also seem to take a new interest in me. I really don't know what to make of it. I easily could be oversensitive to stepping on my roommates turf, or they actually could be more interested in me than before. Whatever.
Anyways, I think I was going to write more, but I got side tracked. I'll have plenty of time tomorrow to write if I think of it.
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